Hey folks,
I am very sorry to have cast a pale shadow, even unintentionally, over this web forum, on Lance's birthday, or on any other day. I don't know if I can set things right, but let me give it a try.
Lance wrote:I just got a PM from KOS. He's leaving the forum over this.
Not over this. It's a great deal more complicated than that. I had first checked out around mid-October, several weeks before this, for almost two weeks, without saying anything to anyone. When I did so, I don't know if I intended to come back or not, but I did. For reasons not worth going into, the forum stopped being fun for me for a while. I came back, and it stopped being fun again.
Some back-channel communication has taken place, and some additional methods for dealing with problems have been suggested to me. Should anyone do anything that bothers me significantly, maybe those procedures will help. Should
I do anything that bothers anyone else significantly, I hope that that can be dealt with also.
I think I failed to appreciate fully that this forum is a smaller and more personal place than other web fora. Someone getting ticked off and leaving seems to be a routine event at, for example, BAUT, so I thought my departure would have been little noted nor long remembered. I know I have posted here a lot, but I am after all just one person, and the forum chugged along quite merrily for two weeks without me at the end of October and beginning of November. So I am really surprised that there is talk of the forum's extinction over this. I should feel terrible if that were to happen, and I will try to prevent it.
So with malice toward none; with charity for all; with firmness in the right, as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in; to bind up the forum's wounds; to care for him who shall have borne the battle, and for his widow, and for his orphan -- do all which may achieve and cherish a just, and a lasting peace, among ourselves, and with all posters.
So I am back, I hope it will be a lot of fun, for myself and for everyone else.
Lance, again, I am very sorry to have caused problems on any day, and especially on your birthday. I have something I want to do in mind, but I don't know if I can manage it, so I don't want to say what it is and then be unable to deliver. Perhaps more on that later.
Nick